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  • 28, Female
  • Espanola, NM
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It takes a lifetime to learn how to be able to hold your own ground, to go out to the others, to be open to them without losing your ground. And to hold your ground without shutting others out. -Buber

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ASDAH and NAAFA

I spent Saturday at the conferences of ASDAH and NAAFA that were held jointly outside DC. ASDAH took up Saturday morning, the early afternoon was spent with NAAFA, and then I then went back to ASDAH for the evening presentation, and then back to NAAFA for dancing and swimming.

ASDAH's Saturday morning presentations were at times intimate to the point of being confessional, and at others totally inspiring. I loved Deb Burgard's notion of moving through the world as fat people who are sane enough… Continue

Posted on August 2, 2009 at 11:19pm — 10 Comments

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coming out

You know in the corner of the screen where it gives the option of creating a badge? I clicked it and added a badge for Fat Activist Network to my facebook page. I thought that would create a permanent link on my profile but it posted like any other post, link, etc.

I was a little uncomfortable. It was like I was coming out. There's this one installment of femmecast that likens coming out as fat to coming out as queer. I mean, that's how it felt. You know and I know that nobody who knows me does… Continue

Posted on April 4, 2009 at 1:43am — 8 Comments

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December 21
what flattery! and heh- 'recognizably dorky'! i'll practice a lot before next year : )) I don't have any idea what happened with Linda Bacon, and all I know for sure is that she's my ally.
August 11
Abby, I keep telling you, you looked great out on the dance floor -- adorable! And spending the day with you was the highlight of my all-around wonderful convention! Yes, thanks Krissy! Yes, Peggy -- it is exactly like a family reunion -- with all…
August 11
abby and Eileen are now friends
August 10
It was so nice to see you at the convention. And you were a cutie on the dance floor.
August 10
1. Lessons From the Fatosphere's wide (heh heh heh) distribution 2. That Dr. Deitz from the CDC (the same CDC whose recent brainchild is the obesity cost calculator, which basically ligitimizes weight discrimation) admitted on NPR that a person can…
August 9
What a pleasure it was to spend time with all of you that were there. In addition to being informative and inspiration, this event was like a family reunion for me. I'm so blessed to have all of you in my family! Looking forward, Peggy
August 8

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At 9:44am on July 22, 2009, Vivienne said…
Love your Buber quote. Working on it.
At 6:20am on July 20, 2009, Vivienne said…
Hi, Abby! How is your summer going?
At 11:58pm on July 9, 2009, Charlotte Cooper said…
Call me Charlotte and no need for shyness! See you in DC.
At 10:50am on June 6, 2009, Vivienne said…
Thank you for this quote, too!
At 8:04pm on May 29, 2009, gracie said…
hi abby! thank you for the comment! my bff and i wrote that together awhile ago and it meant a lot to us. it was edited way down, but i think the parts that were in the piece reflected some major themes in the dialogue. especially the parts about the impact of her losing weight and how others perceive us differently along fat and femme continuums. we are thinking of trying to publish the rest of the conversation somewhere. i really appreciate your comments!
At 5:05pm on May 29, 2009, Vivienne said…
Oh, Abby, I just found your Eve K. Sedgewick quote and it took my breath away. I also find that I just cannot put the F.A.N. badge ANYWHERE--I have not the courage. I re-read your coming out post after my realizing that--and after my DD told me that it would social suicide. Hmmm. Sigh... Think...
At 4:22pm on April 19, 2009, Vivienne said…
Hi Abby: I read a note from someone else on another site who had an extremely similar experience to yours with HS! It was another condition but the experience was so similar that I looked at the name twice. I looked up Pema--I saw your note on Kathy's blog.
At 12:30pm on April 10, 2009, Katie D said…
LOL. Actually I think I am eating an apple. Perhaps I should make one with a cupcake though eh? Thankyou again for the praise. x
At 1:35pm on April 8, 2009, Mychii said…
Hey there! Please join me in a dialogue about "What is a fat ally?" on the front page: http://fatactivistnetwork.ning.com/forum/topics/what-is-a-fat-ally

I really want to hear from as many people as possible.
*GOOD VIBES*
M
At 3:54am on April 3, 2009, Katie D said…
In regard to your comment on my photo- hell yes you can! Lol. I can make one specially if you like. I believe some of my other ones are on my devart page. www.tankgurl1.deviantart.com. Check them out.

Ummm and thankyou *blushes*
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